Am I a switch?

A switch isn't someone who scored in the middle. It's someone whose leading side and following side are both strong. This test scores the two separately across eight roles each and calls you a switch only when both are high and close together.

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Question 1 of 32

When plans are up in the air, I'm usually the one who decides.

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Before you start

What is a switch?

Someone who takes the leading role in some scenes or with some partners and the following role in others. Not indecision: two real sides, and the interesting question is what brings each one out.

How does the test decide I'm a switch?

It takes your strongest leading score (dominant, rigger, sadist, brat tamer, caregiver, master, owner or primal hunter) and your strongest following score (submissive, rope bunny, masochist, brat, little, slave, pet or primal prey). If both are 55 or above and within 15 points, the headline is switch. Otherwise the stronger side wins and the other shows in your mix.

Can I be a switch and something else?

Almost everyone is. Switch is the headline; your mix underneath says which specific roles on each side scored, and those are the pages worth reading.

This is the same test as the full BDSM test, reached from a different question. Read what a switch is before or after. Once you have a result, how to read it is explained plainly.

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