Compare results with a partner

Two sheets side by side: where you fit together, what you both want, and the handful of things worth saying out loud before anything happens.

Take the test first

Comparing needs your own result. It takes about five minutes and there's no account.

How it works, and what we can see

Your answers are put into the link itself, after the #. Browsers never send that part to a server, which means your result travels from your device to theirs and we never hold a copy. There is no account, no database row, and nothing for us to hand over or lose.

The trade is that the link is the result. Anyone who has it can read it, so send it the way you'd tell someone in person, and don't post it anywhere public.

One honest caveat: this is a questionnaire, not a verdict. It's a decent way to start a conversation you were going to have anyway, and a bad way to decide anything on its own. If you want the conversation that actually matters, the checklist is better than the test.