Am I a brat?
If backchat is how you flirt and being chased beats being handed over, you might already know the answer. This test scores it properly: brat against submissive, primal prey, little and the rest, so you see whether bratting is the headline or one part of a bigger mix.
Thirty-two plain statements, no account, and your answers stay in your browser.
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- 32 questions, about 5 minutes
When plans are up in the air, I'm usually the one who decides.
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Before you start
What is a brat in BDSM?
A brat is a submissive who plays at resistance: teasing, pushing rules and provoking a reaction, because the reaction is the fun part. It's a style of following, not a refusal to follow, and it's negotiated like everything else.
Brat or submissive: which am I?
Both are following roles. A brat wants the chase and the consequence; a submissive in the plain sense finds the release in handing over without the fight. The test scores both and shows which one your answers point to, and by how much.
Who is a brat's partner?
Usually a brat tamer: someone who enjoys being argued with as long as they get to win. The test scores that role too, and the compare tool shows two results side by side.
This is the same test as the full BDSM test, reached from a different question. Read what a brat is and what a brat tamer is before or after. Once you have a result, how to read it is explained plainly.