Introvert
Recharged by quiet. Prefers one good conversation to a loud party, and a munch at a corner table to a crowded night.
Tribes are new: the first people to add this get found first by everyone who joins after.
Many people in the scene are introverts, and the scene suits them better than it looks from outside: the dynamics are mostly between two people, the best events are small, and a munch is a corner table rather than a dance floor. But the first step, walking into a room of strangers, is harder for them.
On a card, introvert says you'd rather meet one person properly than ten at once, you'll be quiet at first, and a long message is better than a fast one. It finds others who feel the same and tells everyone else how to approach you.
Introverts often start online, go to a first munch with someone they've already talked to, and prefer workshops (where there's something to do) to socials (where there's only talking). Search your city for classes as well as munches.
Put it on your card
Join free, say who you are and what you're looking for, and the people who share this find you in one tap. No real names, nothing explicit.
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