Curvy, and the people who love curves
Curvy, plus-size, thick, soft, and the people who want exactly that. Attraction said plainly instead of apologised for.
Tribes are new: the first people to add this get found first by everyone who joins after.
Curvy Women and the People Who Love Them is FetLife's third-largest group, with over four hundred thousand members. The kink scene has always been better than the dating apps at this: bodies of every size at every munch, every party, every rope jam, and attraction to curves said plainly instead of whispered.
The tag works both ways. If you're curvy, plus-size, thick or fat, it tells people you're not here to apologise for your body. If you're drawn to curves, it says so up front, which saves everyone the conversation where someone finds out late. Both kinds of card filter to each other in one tap.
Practical things the community shares: rope and suspension for larger bodies (it's done all the time, with the right rigger and ties), where to find fetish wear in real sizes, positions and furniture that work, and how to spot someone who fetishises in a way that isn't respect. The rule that covers all of it: anyone who makes your body a joke isn't one of the people who love curves.
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Join free, say who you are and what you're looking for, and the people who share this find you in one tap. No real names, nothing explicit.
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