Kink events and community in Milan
4 public kink listings in Milan: munches, rope and shibari classes, play spaces, community groups and shops, each linked to the organizer's own site. Free to browse, no account.
Sadistique's parties, a last-Monday social, a leather night and a rope school.
These are the only 4 listings we've confirmed in Milan so far. Plenty of communities organize privately, so a short page here doesn't mean a small scene. If you organize something here, add it and help us get it right.
The nearest cities with a full calendar: Stuttgart, Germany (368 km), Vienna, Austria (626 km), Cologne, Germany (631 km).
Read before you go
What is a munch?
The clothes-on social meetup nearly everyone starts with, and how to find yours in Milan.
What is a play party?
How private parties work, how you get invited to one, and what the house rules mean.
Staying private
Keeping this separate from work and family, from email addresses to photos.
What's on in Milan
Munches, classes, workshops and parties with a date on them, posted by the organizers themselves.
Sex-positive events and classes
One studio teaches rope, shibari and skills classes in Milan, and one community organization runs the munches, workshops and socials around them; both are the clothes-on, beginner-friendly way in.
Dungeons & play spaces
All 2Dedicated, member-run or commercial spaces with their own house rules and a public website. Most require membership or an orientation before your first visit.
Sadistique
Italy's best-known monthly BDSM party, running since 2005 on the first Sunday afternoon of each month at the Nautilus club in Via Mondovì. Each edition has a theme and mandatory dress code, with kinky workshops, art shows, a photo set and good play furniture. Single women enter freely; single men are limited relative to couples and a club membership card is required for some categories.
ULM – Ultimo Lunedì del Mese
The historic Milanese BDSM play party, held since 1998 on the last Monday of each month at the Nautilus club, and considered the first BDSM party in Italy. The evening starts with an aperitivo until 9:30pm followed by the play party in an intimate, welcoming setting. Booking details are on the Milanokinky calendar; the venue requires a membership card and photo ID.
Classes & studios
All 1Beginner-friendly rope and shibari studios, skills workshops and education series for adults. The safest way to learn anything is from people who teach it regularly.
Organizations
All 1Nonprofits, clubs and community groups. These are the people who run the calendar.
Munches
A munch is a casual, clothes-on social meetup in a public place like a restaurant or coffee shop. It's the standard first step into a local community.
Hear what's on near you
A short note when something worth knowing about is happening in your city. No account, a few emails a month at most, and one click to stop.
Common questions
How do I find BDSM events in Milan?
Start with the 4 public listings on this page: every one is an independent group, studio, space or shop in Milan with its own website and recent activity, and we link straight to it. For dates, the Milan calendar shows munches, classes and parties posted by the organizers themselves. Hedonist doesn't run or vet the events, so read the host's own rules before you go. See the Milan calendar.
Can newcomers go to a munch in Milan alone?
Yes, and most people do. A munch is a casual, clothes-on social meetup in a public place like a restaurant or coffee shop, with no play and no dress code. Nobody expects you to know anyone, and organizers are used to first-timers arriving on their own. Your first munch: what to expect and wear.
Is there a dungeon or play space in Milan?
Yes. 2 public play spaces are listed in the dungeons and play spaces section of this page. Nearly all require membership, an orientation or an RSVP before a first visit, and most only share the address after you sign up. All play spaces in Milan.
Is FetLife the only way to find local kink events?
No. FetLife needs an account and a login before it shows anything, and search engines can't see inside it. This page is public: every Milan listing here has its own open website, and the calendar shows dates without an account. If a group you know only exists on FetLife, ask its organizer to add it here for free.