First time in Las Vegas: where to start
Whether you're new to all of this or just new to Las Vegas, the order is the same: a munch, then a class, then a party when you're ready. Here is each step with the real places and their next dates.
Go to a munch. Nothing needed.
A clothes-on social in a public place. Turn up, buy a drink, say it's your first time. This is where you find out what's actually on, and who runs it well.
- see siteThe CathedralLas Vegas
A community group focused on education, workshops, discussion groups, rope lounges and munches.
Their site ↗ (opens in a new tab)
The groups that run things here
- Las Vegas boys of Leather · General meeting 1st Tuesday monthly, 7:00 PM
- Leather Uniform Club of Las Vegas · Monthly meetings, dinners and bar nights (schedule not dated on site)
- Liquid Red Las Vegas · Semi-monthly themed nights at varying venues
Take a class. Drop-ins are normal.
Rope and skills studios are used to strangers and sell single-class tickets online. A beginners' class is the easiest first evening, and the people in it are at your stage.
- Vegas Toolbox · ClassesLas Vegas · membership, orientation or vetting first
An all-volunteer leather education club offering classes, socials and events for adults of all genders and orientations.
Their site ↗ (opens in a new tab)
A party, when you're ready. Start this early.
Most parties want a membership, an orientation or a vetting chat booked days or weeks ahead, and many sell out. Read each one's rules on their own site, and go to your first with no plan to play.
Before you go
- Munches need nothing
- A munch is a clothes-on social in a public place. Turn up, buy a drink, say you're visiting. It is the fastest way to find out what's actually on that week.
- Parties need lead time
- Most play parties want a membership, an orientation or a vetting chat booked days or weeks ahead, and many sell out. Start that before you travel, not after you land.
- Dress codes are real
- Fetish club nights turn people away at the door for ordinary clothes. Read the code on the event page and pack for it.
- Classes welcome drop-ins
- Rope and skills studios are used to visitors and usually sell single-class tickets online. A beginners' class is the easiest first night in a new city.
What is a munch?
What happens at one, the ground rules, and why it is where reputations live.
What is a play party?
How you get in, what a dungeon monitor does, and how to spend your first one.
Staying private
Keeping this separate from work and family.
Need gear or a dress-code outfit before a night out? The Black Room.