First time in Mexico City: where to start
Whether you're new to all of this or just new to Mexico City, the order is the same: a munch, then a class, then a party when you're ready. Here is each step with the real places and their next dates.
Go to a munch. Nothing needed.
A clothes-on social in a public place. Turn up, buy a drink, say it's your first time. This is where you find out what's actually on, and who runs it well.
Take a class. Drop-ins are normal.
Rope and skills studios are used to strangers and sell single-class tickets online. A beginners' class is the easiest first evening, and the people in it are at your stage.
- Shibari Mexico (La Virgen Blue) · ClassCiudad de México · membership, orientation or vetting first
A rope education project led by Blue, a kink-informed educator, teaching shibari as trust, communication and connection through classes, labs and themed workshops in Mexico City, plus online memberships. No experience…
Their site ↗ (opens in a new tab) - see siteArte Shibari (La Habitación Azul)Colonia del Valle Norte, Benito Juárez, Ciudad de México
A shibari studio in Colonia del Valle run by Charles Ilcóatl, teaching weekly two-hour classes for pairs in a calm, ritualised space, plus a 'Shibari Lab' series and occasional suspension workshops. An initial consult…
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A party, when you're ready. Start this early.
Most parties want a membership, an orientation or a vetting chat booked days or weeks ahead, and many sell out. Read each one's rules on their own site, and go to your first with no plan to play.
- see siteTOM'S Leather BarCondesa, Ciudad de México · membership, orientation or vetting first
Mexico City's self-described only leather bar, a large gothic-decorated men's bar on Insurgentes Sur in Condesa, open Tuesday to Sunday from 9pm with go-go dancers, themed nights and a leather crowd. Cover prices with…
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Before you go
- Munches need nothing
- A munch is a clothes-on social in a public place. Turn up, buy a drink, say you're visiting. It is the fastest way to find out what's actually on that week.
- Parties need lead time
- Most play parties want a membership, an orientation or a vetting chat booked days or weeks ahead, and many sell out. Start that before you travel, not after you land.
- Dress codes are real
- Fetish club nights turn people away at the door for ordinary clothes. Read the code on the event page and pack for it.
- Classes welcome drop-ins
- Rope and skills studios are used to visitors and usually sell single-class tickets online. A beginners' class is the easiest first night in a new city.