Kink events and community in Reykjavík
2 public kink listings in Reykjavík: munches, rope and shibari classes, play spaces, community groups and shops, each linked to the organizer's own site. Free to browse, no account.
Reykjavík has Iceland's national BDSM association, which runs courses and regular café munches, and a monthly kink support circle at a community centre that also hosts rope jams.
These are the only 2 listings we've confirmed in Reykjavík so far. Plenty of communities organize privately, so a short page here doesn't mean a small scene. If you organize something here, add it and help us get it right.
The nearest cities with a full calendar: London, United Kingdom (1,889 km), Amsterdam, Netherlands (2,018 km), Antwerp, Belgium (2,097 km).
Read before you go
What is a munch?
The clothes-on social meetup nearly everyone starts with, and how to find yours in Reykjavík.
What is a play party?
How private parties work, how you get invited to one, and what the house rules mean.
Staying private
Keeping this separate from work and family, from email addresses to photos.
What's on in Reykjavík
Munches, classes, workshops and parties with a date on them, posted by the organizers themselves.
Sex-positive events and classes
No class studio is listed yet in Reykjavík, and 2 community organizations run the munches, workshops and socials around them; both are the clothes-on, beginner-friendly way in.
Organizations
All 2Nonprofits, clubs and community groups. These are the people who run the calendar.
BDSM á Íslandi
Iceland's support and education association for people with BDSM interests, founded in 1998. It holds regular courses and events and a public guide to the local community, and it marched in the Reykjavík Pride parade in 2026. Event details are posted on its FetLife and Facebook pages; membership is explained on the website.
Kinky Support Group at Andrými
A monthly peer support circle for kinky and BDSM-oriented people to talk through experiences and questions; it is not therapy. It meets at Andrými, a community social centre that also hosts a kinky film club and rope jams. Places are capped at 15 and need advance registration; first-timers should message the organisers.
Munches
A munch is a casual, clothes-on social meetup in a public place like a restaurant or coffee shop. It's the standard first step into a local community.
Hear what's on near you
A short note when something worth knowing about is happening in your city. No account, a few emails a month at most, and one click to stop.
Common questions
How do I find BDSM events in Reykjavík?
Start with the 2 public listings on this page: every one is an independent group, studio, space or shop in Reykjavík with its own website and recent activity, and we link straight to it. For dates, the Reykjavík calendar shows munches, classes and parties posted by the organizers themselves. Hedonist doesn't run or vet the events, so read the host's own rules before you go. See the Reykjavík calendar.
Can newcomers go to a munch in Reykjavík alone?
Yes, and most people do. A munch is a casual, clothes-on social meetup in a public place like a restaurant or coffee shop, with no play and no dress code. Nobody expects you to know anyone, and organizers are used to first-timers arriving on their own. Your first munch: what to expect and wear.
Is there a dungeon or play space in Reykjavík?
Not one with its own public website, as far as we've found. In many cities the community rents space for events instead, so the organizations and calendar here are the way in. The nearest cities with a listed play space are Glasgow, United Kingdom (1,339 km), Edinburgh, United Kingdom (1,374 km), Dublin, Ireland (1,495 km).
Is FetLife the only way to find local kink events?
No. FetLife needs an account and a login before it shows anything, and search engines can't see inside it. This page is public: every Reykjavík listing here has its own open website, and the calendar shows dates without an account. If a group you know only exists on FetLife, ask its organizer to add it here for free.