First time in Munich: where to start

Whether you're new to all of this or just new to Munich, the order is the same: a munch, then a class, then a party when you're ready. Here is each step with the real places and their next dates.

Go to a munch. Nothing needed.

A clothes-on social in a public place. Turn up, buy a drink, say it's your first time. This is where you find out what's actually on, and who runs it well.

No munch in Munich has opted in to be listed yet; many run by word of mouth. Ask at a class or an organization below, or read how munches work first.

The groups that run things here

JungeSMünchen · Monthly main meetup plus themed Stammtische (e.g. Primals/Pets third Friday of odd months)

Take a class. Drop-ins are normal.

Rope and skills studios are used to strangers and sell single-class tickets online. A beginners' class is the easiest first evening, and the people in it are at your stage.

Sat 17 Oct
Mein Bondage – Shibari-Workshops by Bas Spacewalk · Grundkurs Aufbaukurs
Munich · says newcomers welcome
Couples-only shibari workshops (taster, beginner and advanced) taught by Bas Spacewalk and Veronika at two Munich studios. Register by email as a pair; small groups, consent-focused teaching.
Their site ↗ (opens in a new tab)

A party, when you're ready. Start this early.

Most parties want a membership, an orientation or a vetting chat booked days or weeks ahead, and many sell out. Read each one's rules on their own site, and go to your first with no plan to play.

Sat 7 Nov
Klub Bizarre (at Nachtwerk) · Event
Laim, Munich · says newcomers welcome
Munich's fetish and BDSM party, held three times a year at the Nachtwerk club with play areas, performances and a strict fetish dress code (no everyday clothing). Tickets are sold online and in local fetish boutiques;…
Their site ↗ (opens in a new tab)

Before you go

Munches need nothing: A munch is a clothes-on social in a public place. Turn up, buy a drink, say you're visiting. It is the fastest way to find out what's actually on that week.
Parties need lead time: Most play parties want a membership, an orientation or a vetting chat booked days or weeks ahead, and many sell out. Start that before you travel, not after you land.
Dress codes are real: Fetish club nights turn people away at the door for ordinary clothes. Read the code on the event page and pack for it.
Classes welcome drop-ins: Rope and skills studios are used to visitors and usually sell single-class tickets online. A beginners' class is the easiest first night in a new city.

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