First time in Bogotá: where to start

Whether you're new to all of this or just new to Bogotá, the order is the same: a munch, then a class, then a party when you're ready. Here is each step with the real places and their next dates.

Go to a munch. Nothing needed.

A clothes-on social in a public place. Turn up, buy a drink, say it's your first time. This is where you find out what's actually on, and who runs it well.

Thu 8 Oct
BDSMColombia.info / Festival BDSM Fetish Colombia · Online show
Bogotá · says newcomers welcome
A Bogotá-based information portal for the Colombian BDSM scene, run by the La Licuadora collective, with a beginner's guide, a weekly online talk show and news of munches. It organizes the national Festival BDSM Fetis…
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The groups that run things here

Yes Mistress · Café FLR monthly on a Saturday (next 2026-10-17); workshops 2026-10-10 and 2026-11-21; …

Take a class. Drop-ins are normal.

Rope and skills studios are used to strangers and sell single-class tickets online. A beginners' class is the easiest first evening, and the people in it are at your stage.

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Shibari Night Bogotá
San Felipe, Bogotá · says newcomers welcome
A rope studio and club in San Felipe offering beginner-to-advanced shibari workshops, play parties and performances, and home of the annual Bogotá Shibari Week. Classes are taken in order and booked through the websit…
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A party, when you're ready. Start this early.

Most parties want a membership, an orientation or a vetting chat booked days or weeks ahead, and many sell out. Read each one's rules on their own site, and go to your first with no plan to play.

No public play space is listed in Bogotá yet. Parties here are run privately through the groups above, which is the normal route in most cities: how you get invited.

Before you go

Munches need nothing: A munch is a clothes-on social in a public place. Turn up, buy a drink, say you're visiting. It is the fastest way to find out what's actually on that week.
Parties need lead time: Most play parties want a membership, an orientation or a vetting chat booked days or weeks ahead, and many sell out. Start that before you travel, not after you land.
Dress codes are real: Fetish club nights turn people away at the door for ordinary clothes. Read the code on the event page and pack for it.
Classes welcome drop-ins: Rope and skills studios are used to visitors and usually sell single-class tickets online. A beginners' class is the easiest first night in a new city.