What is a Rigger?
You're drawn to rope as a craft, and you want to be genuinely good at it.
A rigger is the person tying. Rope work sits somewhere between a physical skill and a conversation: tension, placement, the other person's breathing, and knowing when to stop. People who take to it usually describe getting absorbed the way you do in woodworking or climbing.
It's also the part of kink with the clearest safety curriculum, because rope can do real nerve damage in minutes. Every city with a scene has a rope group, and they will nearly always teach a beginner for free or close to it.
The other half of the pair is Rope Bunny. Being tied does something for you that very little else does.
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OrganizationsRope groups run regular practice nights where people tie in the same room and help each other.
Dungeons & play spacesSuspension needs hard points and a floor you can fall onto. That means a real space.
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What is a rigger?
A rigger is the person tying. Rope work sits somewhere between a physical skill and a conversation: tension, placement, the other person's breathing, and knowing when to stop. People who take to it usually describe getting absorbed the way you do in woodworking or climbing.
What is a rigger not?
Rigger and dominant aren't the same word. Plenty of riggers aren't leading anything, they're collaborating on something that takes two people.
Which roles pair with a rigger?
The natural pair is a rope bunny. Being tied does something for you that very little else does. That is a starting point rather than a rule: most people describe themselves with several roles at once, and what fits changes with the partner.
How do I know if I'm a rigger?
You're drawn to rope as a craft, and you want to be genuinely good at it. If that reads as familiar, the free BDSM test scores it in thirty-two plain questions, in your browser, with nothing sent to us. After that, the best place to find out for real is in person: rope is the one thing here you should not learn from the internet. Nerve injuries are fast and permanent.
This is a plain-language guide, not a psychological assessment, and no term here is better than another. People describe themselves with several of these at once, and what fits changes over time.