ITIK (I Think I Kink)
ITIK is a San Jose education-and-play group that runs the roughly bimonthly Hypnosoiree, a recreational hypnosis and kink evening, plus Radical Intimacy container-play nights and potluck discussions, all at a private South Bay venue. Tickets and vetting run through Forbidden Tickets; it is one of the few regular kink events south of San Francisco.
Schedule: Hypnosoiree every 1-2 months (2026-10-17, 2026-09-12, 2026-07-18, 2026-05-08); Radical Intimacy play event 2026-05-16; next date not yet posted
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