AfterDark Events
AfterDark is a POC-, femme- and queer-led producer of themed kink play parties, rope jams and primal-play workshops, mostly at Stopgap and Paradox in SoMa, drawing 100 to 200 people a night. Its SPANK! party is the oldest continuously running public kink party in the Bay Area. Newcomers read the consent guidelines, buy a ticket on Forbidden Tickets and arrive before doors close.
Schedule: Two to four events a month; Wrapt rope jam 2026-10-26 19:00; SCREAM 2026-10-30 20:00; Underworld 2026-10-31 20:00; Little Monsters 2026-11-01 13:00; Wild Jam 2026-11-05 19:00; Unleashed 2026-11-07 20:00; Black Heart 2026-11-21 20:00; Captivated rope party 2026-11-28 19:00; AURA 2026-12-11 20:00
Coming up, from their published schedule
Tap Going? on a date to say yes, maybe or no, and to find someone to go with.
- Wild Jam · 19:00Going?
- Unleashed · 20:00Going?
- Black Heart · 20:00Going?
- Captivated rope party · 19:00Going?
- AURA · 20:00Going?
Read from the schedule above; confirm on their site before you go.
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