The Exiles is a 501(c)(3) BDSM education group for women and queer people (anyone other than cisgender men), running since 1997. It holds a monthly in-person program, usually at Transform1060, an in-person munch in Oakland, a first-Wednesday online munch on Zoom and an orientation for new members.

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