SM Gays
A volunteer-run social and educational group for gay men interested in consensual SM, meeting since 1981. Monthly Discovery Nights each have a theme; no membership or dress code is needed.
Schedule: Monthly, third Thursday 18:00; next 2026-11-19 (Impact Play), 2026-12-17
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